Breathwork for Stress and Anxiety Relief: A Natural Approach
- Jesse Coomer
- Apr 11
- 4 min read

Stress touches almost every part of modern life. Deadlines, financial pressure, social expectations, and that never-ending stream of notifications can keep the nervous system stuck in high gear. For a lot of people, this constant stress spills into anxiety, sleep issues, and burnout.
When I talk to people about how to manage stress, breathwork often comes up. It’s not about simply taking a deep breath and hoping for the best. Breathwork is a science-backed method to influence the nervous system, shift out of chronic stress patterns, and feel more grounded. Unlike meditation, which can feel passive or difficult when you're overwhelmed, breathwork gives you something active to do, and it works fast.
How Breathwork Affects the Stress Response
When your body perceives stress, it activates the sympathetic nervous system. This is your fight-or-flight response. It speeds up your heart rate, raises blood pressure, and shifts breathing into a shallow, rapid rhythm.
That’s helpful when you're in real danger. But most of us are activating that system for things like inboxes and traffic. Over time, this keeps the body in a heightened state, which drains energy and increases anxiety.
Slow, controlled breathing turns on the parasympathetic nervous system, the one responsible for rest and recovery. By sending signals through the vagus nerve, breathwork helps your body lower cortisol, reduce tension, and come back into balance.
Research backs this up. A study in Frontiers in Psychology found that structured breathing significantly lowers cortisol levels and improves emotional regulation. Another showed that breath training supports prefrontal cortex function, the part of your brain that handles decision-making and impulse control.
Breath and Mental Health: The Missing Link
Your mental state and breathing pattern are closely tied. If you have anxiety, chances are you’ve noticed how your breath gets fast and shallow. This chronic over-breathing, or hyperventilation, shifts your body chemistry. You blow off too much carbon dioxide, which actually reduces oxygen delivery to your brain and muscles. That’s part of why anxiety can feel so physically intense.
By learning how to slow the breath and rebalance CO2 levels, you help restore calm. Breath-focused interventions have even been shown to rival the effects of cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) in reducing anxiety. The key is to stick with it. Breathwork isn’t just a one-off technique. When practiced consistently, it trains your body to respond differently to stress over time.
My Go-To Techniques for Stress and Anxiety Relief
These three techniques are ones I’ve taught to thousands of people. They’re easy to learn, and you don’t need anything but a few minutes and your breath.
1. Extended Exhale BreathingThis is one of the fastest ways to shift into calm.
Inhale through your nose for four seconds
Exhale through your nose for six to eight seconds
Continue for about five minutes
Longer exhales activate the parasympathetic system and help your heart rate settle. I recommend this before a stressful meeting or if you're having trouble winding down.
2. Box BreathingUsed by military and emergency personnel, this technique builds focus and reduces emotional reactivity.
Inhale through your nose for four seconds
Hold for four seconds
Exhale through your nose for four seconds
Hold for four seconds
Repeat for several rounds
This is great for moments when you feel scattered or tense and need to refocus quickly.
3. Resonant BreathingAlso known as coherent breathing, this helps regulate your heart rate and improve clarity.
Inhale through your nose for 5.5 seconds
Exhale through your nose for 5.5 seconds
Continue for five to ten minutes
This rhythm optimizes heart rate variability, which is one of the best indicators of your body’s ability to handle stress.
What I’ve Seen in Practice
People from all walks of life use breathwork to regain control in stressful moments. One person from my community shared that after a few weeks of guided sessions, their panic attacks went from daily to rare. Another, a firefighter, told me breath training helped him stay calm during emergencies.
These are not exceptions. I’ve worked with military personnel, first responders, and high-pressure professionals who need tools that work fast and reliably. Breathwork consistently delivers results without needing hours of meditation or any fancy equipment.
How to Get Started
Stress relief doesn’t have to be complicated or expensive. Your breath is available to you all the time. The first step is simply learning how to use it with intention.
If you want guidance:
Join me for a live guided session or check out my online courses at jessecoomer.com
Join The Breath Club on Patreon, where I lead regular breathwork sessions and offer support
Both options are designed to help you create a consistent practice without guesswork.
Frequently Asked Questions
How often should I practice?Five to ten minutes daily is a great start. Even one or two minutes during stressful moments can make a difference.
Is it safe for everyone?For most people, yes. If you have medical concerns like asthma or cardiovascular issues, check with your doctor first.
Can this replace therapy or medication?Breathwork is a powerful complement to therapy, but it’s not a substitute. Always work with your healthcare provider for a full plan.
Why should I learn from Jesse?My approach is practical and grounded in science. I teach breathwork in a clear, no-nonsense way so that you can apply it immediately and see results.
Final Thoughts
Stress might be part of life, but suffering from it doesn’t have to be. Breathwork gives you an immediate, reliable way to calm your body, clear your mind, and reset your nervous system.
You don’t need to be perfect. Just consistent. Pick one of the techniques above, give it five minutes a day, and see how you feel. And when you’re ready to go deeper, join me in a session or course. The breath is right here, ready to help.
Let’s use it.
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